Jesus said we are to judge not. The other side of that is that the judgements others make against us have no bearing. No human being defines who you are. Only God does that. And He says you are His. You are loved. You are forgiven. You are blessed to be a blessing to others for God’s glory. You are so worthwhile that Jesus Christ died for you. You have a hope. You gave joy. You have Christ. Sleep well dear friends.