4 In your struggle against sin, you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood. 5 And have you completely forgotten this word of encouragement that addresses you as a father addresses his son? It says,
“My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline,
and do not lose heart when he rebukes you,
6 because the Lord disciplines the one he loves,
and he chastens everyone he accepts as his son.”[a]
7 Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? 8 If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all. 9 Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live! 10 They disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness. 11 No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. – Hebrews 12:4-11 (ESV)
The word “discipline” doesn’t exactly bring us a warm, fuzzy feeling. I remember as a teenager being disciplined – and it wasn’t pleasant. My dad’s preferred method was the parent-imposed house arrest so flippantly called being “grounded”. And – trust me – it worked. Take away my freedom, my driving privileges, my social life? To my underdeveloped teenage mind, you may as well throw in a little waterboarding and denial of nourishment while you’re at it.
Being disciplined was unpleasant. But it was also effective.
The word “discipline” can have negative connotations. Nobody likes being punished. But God’s discipline isn’t intended as mere punishment. Rather, our Heavenly Father chastises us to bring about growth, to spur spiritual maturity, to make is perfect (as in spiritually whole, as opposed to flawless).
When we consider God’s view of discipline, it should fill us with hope, not dread. We should view our troubles with joy in the Lord, not dread or avoidance. Our loving Father uses our trials and problems to draw us closer to Him and deliver us to a better place, a holy destination.
28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. 29 For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. 30 And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified. – Romans 8:28-30 (ESV)
When we see God’s discipline as course correction as opposed to mere punishment, we get a deeper understanding of what it means that God works all things out for our good. The goal is not simply punitive. Our troubles – even / especially when self-inflicted – bring an opportunity to learn and grow. Don’t wallow in self-pity. Embrace the education and opportunity God provides by leaning into Him, gleaning His wisdom through His Word and prayer, and submitting to God and His perfect will.
2 Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, 3 for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. 4 And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. – James 1:2-4 (ESV)









