I’m sitting at the car dealership, waiting while they perform an oil change on my car.  And I figured, since I have an hour or so to hang around and the place has free Wi-Fi, I’ll send out a little encouragement to all of you.

And, as I pondered what to write tonight, the thought of oil came to mind.

Of course, oil in the Bible is nothing like the petroleum-based stuff they’re putting in my engine.  (At least it better not be.  EVOO makes a great salad dressing, but does it protect the valves in my engine like 5W30?)

Olive oil was originally used by shepherds to keep bugs from getting in their sheep’s ears.  They would pour it over the animals’ heads, making a surface too slippery for bugs to climb.  In doing so, shepherds were protecting – even saving – their flock.

This is the origin of anointing, the act of applying oil on one’s head as a sign of God’s blessing.  When we accept Christ as our Savior, we essentially are anointed.  The Holy Spirit – Who is symbolized by oil – indwells us, inspires us, comforts us, guides us, strengthens us, intercedes for us…

But oil is also important in Scripture as a source of light (just like Jesus, Who is the Light of the World). It is important that we don’t let our oil run out.  How can we be salt and light if our lamps have no oil?  

Consider Jesus’ parable of the wise and foolish virgins:

 “Then the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. 2 Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. 3 For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them, 4 but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. 5 As the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and slept. 6 But at midnight there was a cry, ‘Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’ 7 Then all those virgins rose and trimmed their lamps. 8 And the foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ 9 But the wise answered, saying, ‘Since there will not be enough for us and for you, go rather to the dealers and buy for yourselves.’ 10 And while they were going to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was shut. 11 Afterward the other virgins came also, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open to us.’ 12 But he answered, ‘Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.’ 13 Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.” – Matthew 25:1-12 (ESV)

Why did the five foolish virgins miss the bridegroom?  They weren’t prepared.  They brought no oil for their lamps.

They were facing an oil crisis.   

When we are overly busy, overly stressed, overly worried, overly preoccupied, overly anxious… We can easily let our lamps run low on oil.  So low, in fact, that we may not be able to easily get our lamp relit.  Without the Light, we miss the blessings of God.  We view our struggles as disasters instead of what God can do with them.  We can’t see the Lord working in and through our pain, our troubles, our trials.

Keeping our oil level right is vital – in our vehicles as well as our lives.  Stay focused on Jesus.  Rest in the Holy Spirit.  Trust God at all times and in all things.  Don’t let your lamp run dry.  Let it shine the light of the Lord on this dark world.  Be a beacon of love, peace and joy in the Lord!

Hmmm…. now that I think about, I understand why the exhaust from my car smells like a Caesar Salad.

“O righteous Father, even though the world does not know you, I know you, and these know that you have sent me. I made known to them your name, and I will continue to make it known, that the love with which you have loved me may be in them, and I in them.” – John 17:25-26 (ESV)

I do not know Teddy Roosevelt.

I know he was an asthmatic child who grew to become a poster child for strength and macho.  

I know he led the Rough Riders up San Juan Hill during our short war in Cuba.  

He was governor of New York at the end of the 19th century, then vice-president under William McKinley until, a few months after the election in 1901, President McKinley was assassinated in Buffalo NY.  After that, Roosevelt was President of the United States for nine years – the youngest man (at age 42) to ever hold the post.

Roosevelt stood up to bankers and captains of industry, saw to it the Panama Canal was dug, and established the National Forest Service, creating many national parks, monuments and forests.

At a campaign stop in Milwaukee in 1912, he was shot by a would-be assassin while making a speech.  Refusing immediate medical attention, Theodore Roosevelt – wounded and bleeding – stood and gave his 90 minute speech, telling the crowd that “it takes more than (a bullet) to kill a Bull Moose.”

He was the inspiration for the teddy bear.  He had a great, tooth-filled grin, a fantastic mustache, and used terms like “bully” and “deeeeee-lited!”
I also know Robin Williams portrayed Roosevelt in the “Night at the Museum” movies.

I know a lot about Theodore Roosevelt.  I have read a couple of biographies, watched Ken Burns’ excellent PBS series on the Roosevelts, and have Wikipedia to fall back on for quick facts while writing this (and, if it’s on the internet, it has to be true.  Right?)

But… while I possess knowledge about our 26th president, I cannot make any honest claims to have known the man.  He died nearly half a century before I was born.

With this being advent season,it is a time to prepare ourselves to celebrate the birth of our Savior.  It is a wonderful opportunity to build fresh habits to draw nearer to God, to get to know Him better.

Unfortunately, so folks believe knowing God requires a theology degree, or is based so,sly on studying the Bible.

Yes, there is an intellectual role in knowing God.  But that alone won’t do it.  Relationships require time and attention.  They require investment.

I may not know TR, but I know my wife.  We’ll be married 25 years next summer.

She deserves a medal.

I didn’t read about my beautiful bride to get to know her.  I spent time with her.  I listened to her, watched her, hung out with her.

It is the same with us and God.  Reading and knowing His Word is important – vital – because this is where God reveals Himself to us.  But we also need to invest time in prayer, listening to Him, watching for Him, hanging out with Him.

So, today, find some time to invest in your relationship with our Heavenly Father.  Talk to Him.  Wait on Him.  Listen to Him.  Revel in the fact that you have the attention of the God of the universe.  Study His Word.  Seek His guidance.  Love Him.

And see how greatly He loves you. 

Relationships take time and patience and love and nurturing.  And there is no better investment than Jesus Christ.  After all, Heinvested everything in us.

What if…?

That’s the question that pains so many people when worried or anxious or stressed.

What if something bad happens?

What if the things I fear come true?

What if all these problems overwhelm me?

What if they stop playing “Friends” reruns on cable TV?

What if they stop running cable TV?

What if… what if…

The mantra of the worrywart.

The thing is, rarely do all these “what if” moments ever come to pass.  No wonder Jesus tells us not to worry, for worry cannot add one single hour to our lives.  In fact, worry does just the opposite: it steals our joy, robs us of our time, saps our energy, confuses our focus…

Steals.  Robs.  Saps.  Confuses.  Who does that sound like?  Certainly not God.

Let’s turn this “what if” questioning around and reframed our thoughts.

What if God showed up at just the right time in this situation?

What if these trials are meant to strengthen me.

What if the situation isn’t anywhere near as dire as I fear it may be?

What if I understood that God is in control, sovereign over all?  What if I realized I am not in control of the results and have to be?

What if I accepted that I am human, I make mistakes, and that is ok?

What if I knew for sure this storm will pass without destroying me?

What if I recognized Who God is, that He loves me and will never abandon me?

What if my faith in the Lord were so great that it swelled up and over every aspect of my life and drowned all the worry and anxiety?

What if I just started being brave, refusing to doubt, and letting my weakness be God’s strength?

What if I just stopped worrying and started trusting the Lord and resting in Christ?

And… what if they dropped those old “Friends” episodes?  There’s always “The Andy Griffith Show”.

Consider the “what if” questions and begin retooling them.  Know God is at work in you.  Rest.  Relax.  Let Jesus refresh you, shape you, inform your thinking.  Trust God and watch Him work.  You will find great blessing when you choose to seek first God and His kingdom.

Keep your heart with all vigilance,
    for from it flow the springs of life. – Proverbs 4:23 (ESV)

Chances are, if you were going to invite someone to lunch, it wouldn’t be Satan.  Not that it matters all that much.  His manners are so poor that he just invites himself.

Sits down at your table.

Sidles up close to you.

Doesn’t bother to look at the menu.  He knows what he’s having: whatever you’re having.

He wants to eat your lunch.

But, here is some good news: he can only grab your cheeseburger if you let him.

This is one of those reminders the Lord has put before time and again lately: “do not be grieved, for the joy of the Lord is your strength” (Nehemiah 8:10,ESV).

You see, God finds great delight when we seek Him.  He doesn’t just invite us to find strength in Him.  He expects us to accept the RSVP to come to His feast.

And… He expects us to show up.

The Lord is our strength.  There are so many verses in Scripture that point to this fact.  We tend to take on so much ourselves: so much worry, so much anxiety, so much guilt, so much shame, so much insecurity, so much baggage we were never meant to lug around.

We are not called to hand over our plate to the devil.  Don’t even let him have a french fry.  We are called to trust in the Lord without understanding the whys and wheres and hows.  We are called rest in the Lord.  We are called to follow Jesus, to love God and love others, and to let faith be our understanding.

This isn’t a simple panacea to cure what ails us.  This is reality.  When we are heavily burdened and downtrodden, we do not function as we ought.  But, when we give up the stinkin’ thinkin’, stop giving in to the temptation to worry or doubt or feel sorry for ourselves, and start giving thanks to the Lord as we seek Him in all areas of our lives – with joy and peace and faith, we discover that we are safely in God’s hands.  He is truly in control and we need not worry about circumstances.

Remember… Satan is a defeated foe.  Jesus beat evil at the cross.  That alone is cause for great joy!  So be mindful of the Lord’s presence.  And take the enemy for what he is:

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. – John 10:10 (ESV)

And this thief is eyeing your burger.

Trust in the Lord and let Him fill you with strength and joy and peace and love, for with Him there is nothing we cannot face. 

Including unwanted table guests.

Have a great lunch!

 

 

 

13 I believe that I shall look upon the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living! 14 Wait for the LORD; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the LORD! – Psalm 27:13-14 (ESV)

Wait.  I don’t know about you, but that’s not my favorite word.  In fact, it doesn’t even make the top 100 list.

But it should.

Your mom was right.  The old adage that “good things come to those who wait” is absolutely true.

We’re all waiting for something.  Peace for our troubled souls.  A change in life.  A season to come or a season to pass.  Healing.  Joy.  A relationship resorted.  A path revealed.  

Whatever you are waiting on – no matter how big or how small – give it to the Lord.  Instead of waiting for any thing in life, wait on the Lord.

Pray.

Have faith.

Keep having faith.

Wait in faith.

Wait until your prayer is answered.

If He doesn’t show up – or, rather, you can’t perceive He has shown up – keep waiting.

Seek God.  Let a Him build your faith.  Let Him strengthen you.  Know that what you are whatever you are waiting for is far less important than what the Lord has planned for you.

And God does have a plan for you.

A good plan.

A perfect plan.

The Lord knows exactly what you need and when.  Don’t be anxious in your waiting.  Don’t give in to the temptation to give up.

Keep your heart fixed on Jesus.

Keep your mind focused on God.

Wait with great patience and joy and thankfulness for all the Lord done, is doing, and will do in your life!

Love God, love others.  That’s what we are called to do.

God isn’t looking for perfection from you.  He isn’t grading you on your performance.

You are where you are because God has placed you there.

For a reason.

To be salt and light.

To be a blessing in the lives of those around you.

To love God and love others.

The results are not your responsibility.

Keep looking to The Lord.  He is your strength and shield, your guide, everything you need.

Have a most blessed day by being a blessing!

And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ. – Philippians 1:6 (ESV)

You’ve no doubt heard the old saying that the only things we can be sure of are death and taxes.  But, for those who put their trust in Christ, there is so much more we can be sure of.

We can be sure that we are saved.

We can be sure that the Lord is always with us, even (especially) when we can’t sense His presence.

We can let go of the nagging perceived need to be in control of our surroundings.

We can rest in all that God is, in His every promise.  Because one word we can apply to the Lord is sure.

Steadfast.

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change. – James 1:17 (ESV)

Our Heavenly Father is the giver of all good gifts.  And He never changes.  

Ever.

God is absolutely all He reveals Himself to be in Scripture.

God is not man, that he should lie, or a son of man, that he should change his mind. Has he said, and will he not do it? Or has he spoken, and will he not fulfill it? – Numbers 23:19 (ESV)

When we feel God has let us down, we need to understand that He is not the one to blame.  Sometimes we have wrong expectations of God.  The truth is simply this: God is God, and we are not.  Regardless of circumstances (or our perception thereof); despite hurt or disappointments or troubles; no matter what we face in life, the truth is that God is with us.  

He said so.  It’s in His Word.

And He is using the circumstances of our lives to form us, shape us, grow us.  That is the good work – sanctification – that He has begun in us.  

The good work He will see to completion.

The good work He is always working in us, which means He is always with us and will never abandon us (sound familiar)?

And you can be sure of every word, every promise, in the Bible.  God isn’t going to lie to us.  What would He gain by doing that?  He is GOD!   Sovereign over all.  Fully in control.  Ever present, ever faithful.

God is steadfast and trustworthy.  He never changes.  But, thankfully, in the Lord’s presence, we do.  For the better.  We draw near to God, and He draws near to us.  He forms us into the men and women He wants us to be.  In His good will.  In His good time.

He is our strength, our wisdom, our guide.

Of all these things, you can be sure.

²⁸ Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. ²⁹ Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. ³⁰ For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. – Matthew 11:28-30 (ESV)

Where does one begin to talk about Who God is?  He is immense beyond compare to anything else.  We have no earthly frame of reference to describe His greatness, no holy example of reverence to compare His righteousness.  The Lord is great beyond mere words.

What amazes me – as if there is only one aspect of God that amazes me – is the fact that He is approachable.  Not only is it possible to have a relationship with the Lord, it is expected.

So many times, we feel inadequate to the task, unworthy of God’s time or energy.  And, honestly, we are unworthy.  Undeserving.

Thankfully, God does not give us what we deserve.  He loves us.  He cares for us.  He has a plan for each of us.

We were created as relational beings, made to have relationships with one another and with God.  Can you imagine how it must have felt for Adam and Eve in the garden?  They walked with God.  Or, rather, God walked with them.

They were safe.

They were content.

They had an intimate relationship with the Creator.

They were free from worry and doubt and death.

That is until…

All they had to do was keep their gaze fixed on God and not give in to temptation.  It is somewhat like Peter stepping out of the boat to walk on the water to get to Jesus.  Now, I realize this analogy is a bit of a stretch, but stick with me.

Peter was fine as long as he kept His eyes on Christ.  He was doing the impossible.  He was walking on water. And not just any water.  There was a storm raging on that lake!  Swells, waves, rain, wind, thunder, lightning…

Despite the threat of death, Peter was fine.

Until…

Adam and Eve weren’t facing a storm.  Theirs was a perfect existence.  There was no threat of death.  Indeed there was no death.

Until…

What Adam, Eve and Peter all reveal is humanity’s Achilles heel.  Our greatest weakness.  Our biggest pitfall.

We stink at obedience.  We fail to recognize God.

Adam and Eve were tempted by the serpent with “Surely you will not die.”  Peter was tempted as well, with “Surely you will die.”  And, when tripped by temptation, what happened in both cases?

God came in and saved.

By rights, the Lord could have just wiped mankind out when Adam and Eve gave in to the serpent and introduced sin to the world.  Imagine how they must have felt… locked out of the garden, life shortened and filled with toil and pain and all the horrific details that sin introduces.  They knew perfection.

They had perfection.

And, in their all-too-human arrogance, they blew it.

Still, God loved them.  He did not utterly abandon them.  Nor did He leave Peter to drown in the stormy sea.  Jesus – our Savior – plucked the disciple from the water and brought him safely to the boat.

Perhaps the worst thing Adam and Eve lost was intimacy with God.  Sin put a wedge between us and Him.  But, with Jesus – God Incarnate – we have the intimacy of true relationship restored.

Understand there is a difference.  Unlike the perfection of Eden, we are surrounded by a sinful world.  Approaching God, building a relationship with Him, requires effort on our part, and faith.  But we are promised: “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you“ (James 4:7-8a, ESV). 

Jesus walked on this earth not as some mere wise man or yogi or what have you.  He was fully man and fully God.  And He built relationships with people.  Intimate, close bonds.

And He still does.

The bond we have with God through Jesus Christ is the surest bond there is.  We cannot sin so big that He cannot forgive us.  We cannot slip so far or so fast that we slip out of His eternal grasp.  Like the Prodigal Son, we may run away from our Father.  But, even if we reek of pig sty and ick, we can always be assured that, leaving all the sinful past behind us, we can run back to our Father and know He loves us, know He will not reject us, know we are welcome back into His arms.

For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. – Romans 8:38-39 (ESV)

God is amazingly, completely approachable – available at any time, day or night.  Even on weekends.  Go to Him in prayer.  So vital is prayer that Paul instructs us to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17).  In other words, keep the line of communication with the Lord open at all times.

When we mess up, we run to Him.  When we have a need, we run to Him. He is our sure shield and protection.

But, God is so much more than that.  He is our loving, heavenly Father Who has made a way for us to have an intimate relationship.  Seek Him first and foremost, with thanksgiving for all He is.  Make a habit of spending time with the Lord in His Word and prayer.  Come to the Lord, for He is good.  Lay down your heavy burden and find rest for your weary soul in Him.

 

 

 

 

1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. ² He was in the beginning with God. ³ All things were made through him, and without him was not any thing made that was made. ⁴ In him was life, and the life was the light of men. ⁵ The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it. – John 1:1-5 (ESV)

Brennan Manning used to tell a joke about two Jewish men and a rabbi.  The first Jewish man walked into temple one day looking distraught.  He walked up to the second man and said, low and sad, “A terrible thing has happened.  My son has become a Christian!”

The second Jew grabbed the first by the arm.  Leaning in close, he said quietly, “Boy, have I got some news for you!  My son is also a Christian.”

“This is awful!” exclaimed the first man.  “Come – we need to talk to the rabbi about this.”

So the two Jewish gentlemen approached the rabbi.  “Teacher, we need your advice.  Our sons have become Christians.”  The rabbi was alarmed.  “Follow me.”

The three men hurried off to the rabbi’s office and closed the door.  Leaning in close to the two men, the rabbi said, “Boy, have I got some news for you!  My son is a Christian as well!  Come, let’s pray to our Lord God and seek His direction on this.”

The three men knelt before God and earnestly prayed about their sons’ conversion to Christianity.  Suddenly from above, they heard the loud, booming voice of the Lord: “Boys, have I got some news for you!…”

Selah.

Advent begins today.  From now until Christmas, we wait for the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.  Not only that, we wait also with great anticipation the return of our Lord Jesus.  It is a time to seek the Lord, to draw near to God knowing He will draw near to us (James 4:8).

Why is it so important to draw near to God?  It is only through Him that we have life in the first place.  He is our creator, our sustainer, our source of all we need.

And, as anyone who has seen a crowd shot on a televised sporting event knows, “God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him will not perish, but have everlasting life” (John 3:16).

It is ever so amazing that the God of the Universe – the One Who hung the stars and created the heavens and earth and all that live upon it; the One Who formed man from dirt and breathed life into our nostrils; the One Who is three – Father, Son, Holy Spirit – Who were all there at creation (as they always have been); this One True God Who is above all, including our frail abilities to fully grasp Him in His entirety, is also Our Loving Father Who is approachable.

Approachable.

We can go to Him.  We can talk to Him.  Anytime.  Anywhere.

We can have a relationship with Him.  We can trust Him.  We need to trust Him.

And you cannot truly trust a stranger.

The better we know God, the more we love Him, the more we trust Him, the more we grow in Him.

Over the next weeks, we’re going to get to know God better.  We’re going to see what He has to say and learn to trust Him more.

I hope you come along on the advent journey with me because, boy, has He got some news for you!

 Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. – Galatians 6:2 (ESV)

I have to chuckle at some the medicine ads on TV.  In particular, the ant-depressant drug commercials with the little, sad-faced, bummed out cloud that follows behind his depressed victim like a sad, floating basset hound.

Anyone with depression or anxiety will immediately recognize the inaccuracy of this illustration.  These feelings don’t trail benignly behind us.   They surround us, envelope us, blind us.  People dealing with anxiety and / or depression can have a hard time regaining our bearings because we can’t see through the thick fog around us.

I am writing this today for a few reasons.  If you suffer from anxiety, depression, etc… I want to bring you hope in Christ.  Know that you are reading words from a follower of Jesus who is walking this lonely path the same as you.  It is my heart to reach out to you with comfort and joy, hope and peace, a cup of cold water.  Know you are loved deeply.  Know you are not alone.  Know you are in His good hands, whether you feel it or not.

If you do not suffer from anxiety, depression, etc… I want to bring you hope in Christ as well.  We who carry this particular thorn in our sides know it can be difficult for you to understand where we are.

Trust me.  We know.

The lack of understanding of what we’re facing is painfully obvious.  The reactions are astounding.  They range from “where is your faith?” to “look at what so and so is going through.  Your life is good, what is your problem?”

Let me dispel some misunderstandings within the church about anxiety and depression, and help you to help those in need of comfort.

1. Not all anxiety and depression is caused by sin

Yes, sin will cause one to be anxious and depressed.  Guilt can be a wrenching emotion.  But, just because a fellow believer is dealing with anxiety and depression, do not automatically assume they are facing / masking some hidden sin or moral failing.

2. Judge not.

There are a lot of causes of anxiety and depression.  Lack of serotonin in the brain will do it.  Diabetics are particularly prone to depression.  A significant loss or life change can do it – even months afterward.  Stress is possibly the biggest factor in anxiety today.  One’s brain can only take so much stress and non-stop go-go-go before it gets tired and burnt out and can’t put two thoughts together.

Even if one’s anxiety and depression is the result of sin, Jesus forgives all who come to Him in repentance.  And that is a level playing field we all are on.  We all need Jesus, for more reasons and in more ways than anyone could possibly count.

3. Compassion and Empathy – Love in Action

Please understand how lonely depression and anxiety can be.  Fears and worries that people normally experience are only compounded and inflated in the minds of those of us who deal with anxiety and depression.

What we need is someone who can understand what we’re going through.  Someone who will help love us through the fears and doubts and anxious thoughts that tear through our minds and souls.

And, often times, it is what people do that is the greatest help.

It is amazing how some people can fear silence.  We feel like we should say something, and we do.

Without much forethought.

Please understand that our feelings of isolation and loneliness are only compounded when confronted with questions of “where is your faith?” or “what is wrong with you?”  For people who suffer from these disorders, it’s like telling someone with cancer to “get over it”.

We understand such reactions aren’t borne from meanness or cruelty, but basic misunderstanding.  If you’ve never experienced the physical pain of a panic attack (yes, it can feel just like a jolt of electricity running through your body), then it’s hard to understand what we face.  Unless you’ve been through the agony of anxiety so acute that you become anxious about being anxious, you can’t comprehend fear that deep.  Until you go through the dark valley of depression – not just having the blues but the exhausting drain of joy in your life repeated day after day after day after day… – you have no frame of reference for how it feels.

Please don’t feel like you need to fix us.  Please don’t think you need to fill the room with words.

Understand what we need could be something as simple as a hug.  A deep, loving, brotherly / sisterly hug.  We need to know we are not alone.  We need kindness and understanding.  We need to know everything is not going to be okay, but is okay.

We know how irrational our thoughts and fears can be.  We know 90% (or whatever figure you come up with) of the things we worry about never come to fruition.

Please understand we do not wish to come across as clingy or needy.  But we need a 3am friend – that person we can call day or night when we need someone to talk to.  We need someone to help pull our gaze outward and out of the swirl of fearful and defeating thoughts and worries and doubts.

We need to be reminded that God loves us, even if we can’t see or feel Him because, frankly, when the negative emotions are in high gear, it is easy to not be able to see God.  We need to be reminded that we are not falling apart.  But, mostly, we need to know that you – the body of Christ – recognize that we are a fellow member of the same body as you and we need your help, your love, your support.

We need to know we are loved and secure.

But… really, if you stop and think about it, don’t we all?